DO YOU WONDER WHAT KIND OF COACH YOU ARE?
In the Agile coaching space our invitations are often unclear. Sometimes we might gain clarity over a period as we refine what invitation might be most helpful with our clients, on other occasions we might not and we or our clients might decide that we are not the right fit for each other.
As we work and live, we fail, learn and evolve and grow in our awareness of our limitations and predispositions. In doing so we refine our understanding and build on our repertoire and capabilities through practice and reflection.
As we develop our awareness of our personal tendencies and biases, we can work with a consciousness of what the costs and benefits of those might be for us and our clients.
Do you recognise any of these patterns?
Where is your natural operating space and how might that be impacting the clients you attract and the results you work in service of?
ARE YOU… A PLAYER MANAGER COACH?
Do you love really being part of a team and are feel attracted to teams looking externally for leadership.
Maybe, you accept a clear goal to achieve a certain target and you are part of the team who are working to achieve it.
More than being part of the team, do you see yourself as having responsibility for the team.
You might see it as your role to protect the team, to drive the team or to transform the team.
In this role you are attached to the team results in the way a football coach is.
Traditional managers often invite coaches into this space because it fits with their model of driving a team to succeed.
Working in this way, you may form close bonds but if the long term goal is to create a self-organising team then you need to be aware of where you stand in relation to that goal and the team.
…A SCIENTIST OR A CONSULTANT?
As a scientist you believe that your clients can be analysed, diagnosed and fixed or transformed.
You will analyse, hypothesise, test, and prescribe solutions.
You are often hired for your expertise and opinion and you quite like being the expert in the room.
Scientists put a majority of faith in data and are likely to have firm views on right and wrong.
You might view your clients as subjects and you probably feel able to identify a range of things that they are doing wrong.
In this head-space, you might talk about anti-patterns or frozen middle-management.
Maybe you have a bag of remedies or frameworks that you can hand out to fix client issues and help them feel better in a whole range of situations.
Working with scientists often appeals to management teams looks for a clear and simple diagnosis of a complex situation.
When working in this way, you are likely to have to navigate the invitation to judge others and to reflect on what this judgement is really working in service of in this system.
…AN INSTRUCTOR?
…A COACH?
…A SYSTEMIC COACH?
As a systemic coach you work with all that your client brings and see behind them their personal and organisational systems from past and present.
You welcome all of the diversity and and richness that individuals and teams bring into the coaching space and you support them as they explore and tap into and develop these as resources.
You work with your clients to develop their awareness of the conscious and unconscious rules in play in their life and walk with them as they explore these systems and develop greater clarity, agency and insights.
Working in this way, you will challenge your clients to both see and listen to the systems that they are part of in work and potentially the systems that they bring with them from their personal lives.
In doing this you will work with them to develop systems that are congruent to their organisational identity and for them as humans.
Working in this way, requires significant openness to real challenge, trust-based relationship and courage to be exposed and explore deep personal growth in service of you goals. The benefit is the possibility of deepening the understanding of personal and systemic awareness which can stay with us for life.
or maybe something else?
What did we miss?
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